秘诀让男人不得不动心

秘诀一：真正的男人害怕被拒绝
希望得到肯定，害怕被拒绝，特別是被自己最亲密的女人拒绝，这是男人的通病。如果他一开口，你就回一句“那是错的，我不同意”或“你从哪儿得到这种疯狂的想法”，他就会马上缄口不言了。

秘诀二：亮明你的立场
男人在讲述內心秘密时，伴著各种担心与焦虑，但更需要的是分享的快乐。这时你就需要亮明立场，记住一定要表明你站在他那一边。你这么做会让他產生共鸣而兴奋得滔滔不绝。

秘诀三：该放手时就放手
男人最怕女人对过去的事情不放手，所以很少旧事重提。他们的担心不是没有道理，一些女人喜欢扮演受害者和“烈士”的角色，她们需要利用对于爱情的埋怨使自我感觉良好。但记住，如果扮成怨妇靠过去的牺牲来留住男人，这说明你的感情已经很危险。

秘诀四：锻炼听实话的勇气
愿意听实话是真正成熟的两性关係的开始，这会使男人感受到他有一个可靠的伴侣，並能与之共患难。別干自欺欺人的事，也別灰心，也许你现在还不能接受全部事实，但只要你愿意，你一定能锻炼自己的容忍能力。

秘诀五：对自己真实
帮助一个男人说出心事的最好方法就是对你自己诚实、自然、真实，並释放出温暖和接受的气息。当一个人完全接纳自己时，他能够营造出一种完全轻松的状態。你有没有觉得一些人身上有一种魅力，即使我们与他们相识的时间不长，我们也愿意相信他们並说出心里话。

Typical expression of a man who don't love you anymore

1.漠然：当你的男人变心后，他的第一特徵绝对是漠然。对你漠然，对你的朋友漠然，对你身边的一切漠然。

2.装傻：其实，要做到漠然很容易，第一要诀就是要学会装傻。比如，他明明知道你下班后很累，他也会装作看不见；比如他明明清楚你的疑惑，也会装作一脸无辜。

3.忙碌：突然从某一天开始，你的男人开始异常的忙碌起来，而且不是忙著围著你转，显然他的心变了。

4.嗜睡：你不明白为什么他回到家里只喜欢睡觉，但对于变心后的他来说，家里只是一个睡觉的地方而已。

5.沉默：有些男人天生不善于掩饰，当他的心不再属于你的时候，你们之间的任何话语对他来说都成为了多余。

6.忘记：当你的男人变心之后，即便是他记得某些重要日子，他也会寧可选择忘记。

7.自私：当你的男人不再爱你时，所有的包容和宽恕便会消失得无影无踪。他会为了自己的利益而忘却你的权利，会努力的去做一切事情，只为满足自己的自私。

8.愤怒：以前的他，肯定不容易动怒的，可是当他变心后，你的任何一点点小紕漏，都会成为他勃然大怒的理由。

9.绝情：当男人变心已经到无药可救的时候，绝情便会成为他们唯一的表情。

10.陌生：爱情消失之后，你们之间还会剩下些什么？除了陌生，还是陌生。別指望你们之间还能够做朋友，男人一旦变心，便是没有理由的完全忘却你们曾经的幸福和微笑。

22/2/09 Property Fair

This morning we have join Seng Hai to attend class in california fitness, after gym; we found a Property fair; there have 2 crown in front of the Entry there; and i have meet See Ling there ^v^

In the Fair; we have found our Ideal homes, RM231k, Semi D, 2-Storey; 4 room, 2 living room, 3 bathroom. But the location abit far; in Shah Alam. although this is my Ideal home, and the price also in my budjet... but Andy say this is not the right time to buy a new house; however i hope my home will like this home :D









After the Fair; Seng Hai have bring use to Kuchai lama OldTown having lunch + tea time. and we have discuss on the property. I have order Ayam Rendang, Andy order Curry Mee and Seng Hai have order Special Ayam rice. After lunch then go back home.

21/2/2009 Eddie Daughter Birthday Party

Eddie have invite us go to join his daughter Birthday Party. After meet with Mila and we arrive Eddie house around 8.30pm.

All the food prepare by Kathryn and her mother. We have join the party until 11.00pm then only go back home.

20/2/2009 dinner with Amy - Golden Bridge Restaurant

Amy ask join dinner with her cause Francis just finish laser operation and want go outside having dinner, too boring having dinner in home already.

Then we go and find restaurant to eat; i proposal having dinner in Fun OK, Cheras; but seen Andy dun like the environment there, then we go to another place.

Amy say the Golden Bridge restaurant quit ok one; but never try before; then we decide having dinner there.

I have order a LambChop, Andy order Bonjari Chicken, Amy order Beef-Chop and Francis order Pizza. And the waiter have bring me mint sauce for the lamb; the mint sauce and the Lamb Chop very yammy...

I think i will go back there and having the lamb chop again ^^

Valentine Day

Valentine day for me just another normal day; no flower; no chocolate; do dinner.... i'm don't think this is a very sad thing, cause i belive 如果有心；天天都是情人节！

Celebrate Valentine day just give a big chance for the merchants to earn money; a Bouquets with 8 rose; normally day only sell RM40; today they sell at RM100... Valentine Chocolate... expensive then other day.. dinner... what do u think? they won't miss the chance!! Expensive also... that's y no dinner ; no flower; and no chocolate... hehehe...

Harry looking for us today for lunch; and he say today is the first Valentine with his new girl friend and ask opinion with us what should he buy for his new gf... What else? bouquets lol.... after we having lunch; he say want looking for a book, then we search in plaza pudu and waliking to times square search in Border's... Very unfortunely, Times Square don't have sell Chinese book already; then we walk back to Pudu Plaza to take ca; while we on the way go back; Harry keep asking us; r we sure he need buy a bouquets? Of couse he need! this is the first Valentine with his new gf!! must buy also!! hahaha.... then we go and choose the flower; after buy; he ask me help him take the bouquets; i know it is not for me; but i feel very happy already; beautiful flower.... i almost forget how many year i never received a bouquets before... He tell us also.. this is his first bouquet he buy for a girl.

Valentine Dinner

Mila have ask us join her for dinner to9; around 6.30pm we have arrive her house; after preparation; we having a very wonderful dinner; and i have teach her daughther to play yahoo games. We stay until 12.00am then only leave....

Total tired for today... hahaha

2009 年十五晚

2009 年十五晚

Tonight me and Andy go back my home having dinner; after dinner while we arrive to San Peng; we found that there have lion dancing celebrate there. I finally watch lion-dancing in this chinese new year. So 2009 Chinese New Year have pass together with sound of the drum.

080209 - Sabat house dinner

080209;

Andy customer Sabat invite us having dinner at his house; once we arrive there Peter & Family already come; together with Peter staff.

Sabat have prepare a lot of seafood + abalone.... we have try to finish but can't; while we enjoy our food; Peter bring a plate of prawn; the size was HUGE!!! never see this prawn before. He say 3kilo around RM400++ only 17pcs and buy and try to9.

Wow we really having a great seafood dinner to9!! ^v^

2/2/2009 dinner ar Lim new house

2/2/2009

Lim have invite us join his new year dinner at his new house. Andy have come and fetch me after work; then direct go to his house to join Lim's dinner.

Sin Fong have buy a lot of food scare we not full enough. Cause total of us have 12 people.

We start eating in front of his house; but rainning while we eating half way; so we move to Lim Kitchen...

After eat as usually we gambling; until 12.00pm firework start cause the next day is chu jiu; pai tian gong; everybody go to front door and watch the firework... That's really so enjoy.

Time pass very fast...

My Godness!! Time pass very fast... i have a very very very long time didn't update here; and i have totaly forget this blog :p Just pass the 2009 Cow CNY.... and this year is my another brand new life... Change team in JOS; and this is the year i'm going to register !!!

hope this year will better then last year.